• Creating Inclusive Classrooms: Moving Beyond Stereotypes to Support Autistic Students

    Adrián has been at this school since he was three years old. He walked through those doors as a tiny little person who already had so much to say, in his own unique way. And now, at twelve, he is getting ready for high school. I am excited for him. Genuinely, deeply excited. And also, if I am honest, a little anxious in the way that only a parent who has been held by something truly good can understand. Because leaving a school that has given us everything feels enormous.
    The silver lining is this: Guillermo is still there. He has years ahead of him at that school, and knowing that brings me so much peace.
    One of the things that tells me everything I need to know about our school is this: when I see their number come up on my phone, my first instinct is not dread. I know, with complete certainty, that if they are calling me, it is because they have genuinely exhausted every option they had. I am their last resort, not their first reaction. That is the kind of trust that took years to build. And it is everything.

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  • A New Chapter of Celebration: Announcing Our Second Edition & a Free Gift!

    I have to tell you about a happy moment in our lives. It usually starts with a brightly colored invitation, held a little nervously by Adrián. “There’s a party,” he’ll say, his voice a mix of excitement and that familiar flutter of anxiety. I know that flutter so well. The questions swirling in his brilliant […]

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  • Explaining Autism to Your Child’s Siblings: A Heartfelt Guide

    “Why does Adrián get to stay home from Grandma’s party, but I have to go?”

    My neurotypical 3-year-old niece asked me this during a family gathering. And honestly? I didn’t have a good answer ready.

    Because how do you explain to a child that their autistic cousin isn’t “getting away with” something, he’s protecting his nervous system from complete overwhelm?

    How do you help cousins or even siblings understand autism in a way that builds empathy instead of resentment?

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  • Creating Mask-Free Zones: A Loving Approach to Authenticity at Home and School

    A good friend of Adrián told me at pick-up “Adrián, Is SO tired, but he was acting normal all day.”

    “What do you mean, ‘acting normal’?” I asked..

    “You know… making eye contact. Not stimming. Sitting still. Acting like other kids.”

    My heart broke. Because I realized: my son was masking. And he was exhausted from it.

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