Navigating Autism Together Through Social Emotional Learning
Your child is having a meltdown again.
You want to help but nothing seems to work. You feel helpless, exhausted, and maybe a little lost about what people around you are thinking.
You are not alone.
Meltdowns are not tantrums. They are your child’s nervous system saying I am overwhelmed and I do not know how to cope yet. This book gives you both a language for what is happening and a real way through it.
Through Adrián’s story, children and the adults who love them will learn:
See how the beautiful illustrations and simple language make complex emotions understandable for children.
Dalisse and Luis wrote this book for their two autistic boys, Adrián and Guillermo. Every strategy in these pages has been lived, not just researched.
Hand-drawn images that children connect with, showing Adrián’s real experiences with empathy and understanding.
Through Adrián’s story, children learn self-awareness and emotional literacy, while parents discover empathy-based strategies that bring calm to daily life.
Whether you are a parent, a grandparent, a teacher, or a therapist, this book meets you where you are. Through Adrián’s story, your child sees that they are not alone. And you see that there is a way through, even on the hardest days. Meltdowns do not define your child. And they do not have to define your family either.
We are grateful for the support of our amazing community. Here is what parents, caregivers, and educators have to say about Loving Pieces Books and how our stories are making a difference.
We’d love to hear how our books have impacted you and your family.
Even though none of my daughters are autistic, the book Autism Calming the Chaos was very eyeopening to the world of autism, easy to read with very well done illustrations. It helps you understand meltdowns and shows you how to respond in a respectful matter. Great book to teach about autism to people who dont knoe in detail about what autism is.
– Maria F. Rivera
This book would be a great gift for anyone who has a neurodivergent child in their lives. It offers very clear and straightforward explanations of behaviors frequently seen in neurodivergent children and most importantly offers strategies for how to best manage these behaviors and make sure an autistic child can thrive. It is also written with incredible empathy towards both children and parents. Highly recommend!
– Maria Jose
This book has been a game-changer for me in understanding autism with its compassionate narrative and beautiful illustrations. I found it incredibly helpful in learning practical tips to manage meltdowns and build emotional skills for children with autism. This book is perfect for anyone, whether a parent, educator, or friend, looking to promote empathy and inclusion. It makes complex topics approachable and relatable for all ages, and I cannot recommend it enough!
– Nelson
The book was very different I got the books for my kids so they could understand why their cousin who is in the spectrum had the meltdowns specially in family reunions, the illustrations were nicely done and the story is perfect to explain children about autism, it opened my eyes too to learn more about autism
– professional-dad
I picked up Autism: Calming the Chaos! to better understand what my friend’s child, who’s on the spectrum, goes through, and it was exactly what I needed. We’ve hung out at a few gatherings, and I’ve seen my friend’s kid have meltdowns, but I never really understood what triggered them. My friend suggested the book, so I decided to give it a try. The story is told by a real kid on the spectrum, and it’s super easy to follow and understand. I’m honestly surprised at how informative and empathetic a children’s book can be. I’m sure this book could help promote inclusion and understanding among kids who aren’t familiar with autism.
– AMAZON CLIENT
This book is awesome! I had no idea what my best friend and his kid go through every day. Its very honest, the drawings are very nicely done, and I’m happy the story helped me understand how I can actually help support them better. Highly recommend it to anyone who has little knowledge of day to day autism.
– Ryan B
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Everyone carries emotions they cannot always name. Adrián calls his the invisible backpack. On a family hike, he discovers what is inside it: big feelings, borrowed feelings, the exhaustion of masking, and the relief of finally taking the mask off. This book gives your child a language for their inner world and shows them they do not have to carry it alone.
Perfect for: kids learning to identify emotions, families navigating sensory overload and masking, therapists introducing emotional regulation tools
The summer is ending and the worries are starting. Adrián knows that feeling in his stomach, the tight chest, the tummy full of tiny bubbles. This book walks families through meeting a new teacher, building visual schedules, preparing sensory-friendly outfits, and arriving on day one feeling as ready as possible. Because readiness is not about being fearless. It is about having a plan.
Perfect for: back to school transitions, kids with anxiety around change, parents preparing their child’s teacher to truly understand them
Adrián feels left out at recess. He loves history and trains and does not quite speak the same social language as the other kids. This book walks him through understanding what makes him unique, building real self-esteem from the inside out, and finding the courage to show up as himself even when it is hard. It includes affirmation cards your child can use every day.
Perfect for: kids who feel different, parents working on self-esteem and social confidence, therapists using story-based tools
Adrián gets invited to his friend Amelia’s birthday party. He is excited and nervous in equal measure. His family makes a Party Plan together, they practice the Birthday Candle Breath, and they talk through the where, who, what, and when. This book shows your child that social events are not something to survive. They are something you can actually enjoy when you go in prepared.
Perfect for: kids with social anxiety around events, families preparing for birthday parties or gatherings, therapists working on social readiness